Thursday, April 23, 2009

A Plan…Full Steam Ahead



Carter with SuperBear

Today we had our “family meeting” with the oncologist. We have so much faith in our team at CHOC and have been receiving great care for Carter. They took the time to answer our hundreds of questions. Matt and I are becoming quite the experts in hepatoblastoma. The doctors and nurses are starting to understand that there is no such thing as too much information for Matt and I. We were anxious for this meeting because this meeting is the pivotal moment to agree to the plan and begin treatment. And we aren’t wasting any time. Carter will have his first chemo treatment tonight.

Carter’s chemo treatments will be on a 21 day cycle. The first three days of each cycle we will be admitted to the hospital for chemo treatments. Carter receives a chemo drug called Cisplatin on day 1. This drug is administered through a drip which is connected to his central IV line in his chest. They hydrate him first for four hours on an IV drip, give him an anti-nausea drug, then Cisplatin for another four hours. I’m hoping Carter will sleep through most of this tonight. We’ll see. On day 2, Carter will be resting and we will look for any reactions to the drug. And on day 3, Carter will receive two more chemo drugs. The first one being Vincristine and the second one is called Fluorouracil. These will be in pill form and a push into his IV line. The doctors told us Carter will lose his hair, and some other side effects include nausea/vomiting, loss of appetite, mouth sores, constipation, and possible hearing loss. They will watch this all closely, and some of the side effects have drugs he can take to alleviate them. This first time taking the drugs they will watch Carter for a couple days after, and make sure we are prepared to go home with all our new responsibilities. The doctors say we may possibly go home early next week. Then, our 18 days until the next treatment will include going to the clinic throughout the week and getting tests done to follow his care.

After two rounds of chemo, the doctors will do a CT scan to see if the tumor is shrinking. Most likely, they will do four rounds total before doing surgery to remove the tumor. The tumor currently occupies 2/3 of Carter’s liver. It is mostly on the left lobe of his liver, but does go into the right lobe. Therefore, it would be impossible to do surgery now. We’re hopeful the chemo will make the tumor shrink down to the left side only, which would allow them to remove the left lobe of his liver entirely. The liver can regenerate very easily, so if one lobe is removed it can grow back within months. If the tumor does occupy both lobes and does not respond to chemo, this is when a liver transplant is necessary. But this will NOT be the case with Carter…we are hopeful!! After surgery, Carter will have two more rounds of chemo to ensure all cancer is gone. We are hoping this is the plan, and everything goes this way…smoothly with no rough patches along the way.

Matt and I have been overwhelmed by the outpour for our little guy. The support is so appreciated and keeps us going. THANK YOU! Carter’s bravery, as well as all the other children on the oncology floor is miraculous. They are fighting for their lives, but just want to be kids. Carter has had fun going to the Play Room to paint, color and play. We’ve met some amazing kids and parents here at CHOC, and find comfort in hearing others stories. It just doesn’t seem fair that these kids are enduring so much at such an innocent age, they are stronger than many adults would be.

15 comments:

  1. Go Carter!!!!! He will do great!!! You guys are wonderful parents and we are on the sidelines cheering for Carter. If you are lucky maybe I will bust out my NHHS cheer outfit! Thank you for the update. Again, we love you guys and are here for you all the way.

    Love,
    The Norton Family

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  2. "I love it when a plan comes together." (Sorry, I watched too much A-Team as a child) GO CARTER!! It's gonna be a big fight, but you've got a lot of friends in your corner!

    Matt and Kara - thanks for keeping us updated even with everything else you've got going on. You are amazing parents and friends. Lots of ((HUGS)) are sent your way.

    Bennett - I bet this has been a crazy week for you! You are such a brave and helpful big boy. I am so proud of you and all the smiles you bring your mom, dad and brother.

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  3. Keep up the good work Carter! We've been checking this blog hourly, waiting for good news. Hang in there guys.

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  4. Lots of prayers coming your way that everything goes according to plan. You guys are amazingly strong and are completely on top of it!

    Lots of love,

    The Stephenson Family

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  5. Matt and Kara- This is such a hard time for all of you, but most of all, Carter. I know firsthand how excruciating it is to see your child hospitalized, even though my experience was not nearly as serious as what you are both going through. He is adorable and I believe the reason why he is so brave through all of this, is because of your love and support. He has learned to trust those close to him, to know that they are there to help him. I will continue to pray for the sweet little guy, and thanks for posting this blog. Good luck to you and your family. Embraces, Maureen (Mo) Murphy, Kay's friend

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  6. Thanks for keeping us up to date. Kids are brave and they edure more than they should. We are thinking of you daily and having a leomande stand in his honor this weekend. Keeing the prayers coming!
    Brooke and family

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  7. Kipps, Our prayers and wishes are with you. Brett was in Choc when he was seven. It is an amazing hospital,they will take good care of all of you! All our Love, The Pyka's

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  8. I just wanted to assure you that the liver does regenerate, it's an amazing organ. In 1990, I had a tumor that took up 3/4th of my liver. It wasn't like your son's, but it still left me with very little of my liver when it was removed. Today, I'm healthy and my liver grew back very quickly. All my enzymes are normal. Prayers for your family.

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  9. Dear Kara and Matt,

    We send our love to you! Our son, Conner was on the oncology floor at Choc when he was 4 - he is 21 now!! They will take good care of your little guy. Remember Kara you have a guardian angel, in grandpa Keith....he will give you strength! Thank you for the update on Carter. Love and hugs to all. Fight hard Carter-you can do it!!

    We're thinking of your family.

    Jim and Susan (Murray) Ferguson

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  10. The Crary's send their love and support. You are all constantly in our thoughts and prayers.

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  11. What a blessing to be receiving such wonderful care that you can be confident in!! Will be praying that his little body handles the chemo well and that the chemo will kick that tumor's boo-tay!!

    Love & Blessings~
    Aubrey (friend of Erin!)

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  12. I found your blog via the burns family blog. Carter is a cute kid....so is Bennett. I will keep your family in prayer. Major hugs!

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  13. To Carter and His Family

    We pray that you get the best possible results from your treatment; we pray that your recovery is swift and complete; and we pray that you all feel the waves of love and affection and care sent by so many to you each day.

    With love

    Dan and Jeanie Ardell

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  14. We are praying for your family and sending lots of positive energy your way for Carter's speedy recovery! Let me know if I can do anything to help.
    Lots of Love,
    Misha and Andy Nesselrod

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  15. Greetings from Spain! We are thinking about Carter every day and checking in on the updates. We're so happy he seems to be doing well with the chemo! Can't wait to see his healthy face back at home soon!

    Love,
    Jamie, Nat, and Kalyn

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